make here. when somebody has had to discipline when i'm on the rod, grandma, his aunt, his god patients, the cleaning lady, whatever, i've always been the one to step in, you know, and lay the finger down and let him know that i'm your father, you know, and this is law of the land right here under this roof, but at the same time, you know, we are very close. >> what do you think the law of the land should be for your son? >> show respect to the people around you, especially have a little respect for as much as i'm gone, and i've tried to ajust my schedule to be home. that's just not the way it is, and try to -- troy to think about some things, too, how fortunate we are to have the things we, have and while there's other people gone from their homes, ie military members, people in business that travel a lot, that's just the way it is for a lot of kids, you know, and when there's a few times in his life, oh, this stinks, you know, you're famous and i've got to read about your antics in paper and get teased as school, and i'm saying it's a pretty nice bed you've got upstairs. it's a pretty nice car we drive to school every day. like calm down.